A Closed Mouth Don't Get Fed...

A Closed Mouth Don't Get Fed...Yes, yes, we have all heard the saying and can interpret it as being hey, if you want something... go after it.  But men, when it comes to seeing a woman who is attractive to you and you would like to take her out, you have to be careful in how you open said mouth!! LOL

First things first dont bug the hell out of her... this goes for women to.  Most people want to feel wanted, but not too the point of pestering.  Secondly, constantly referring to a woman as sexy, or when you text them its ALWAYS "hey, sexy..." is not flattering in the least bit.  For me personally, it is a MAJOR turn off and a pet peeve.  Call a lady pretty or cutie.. it just sounds a bit better. Thirdly, making sexual inferences before you even get an opportunity to take them out is a fricken no no! UNLESS they are somewhat reciprocated, and even still you have to toe the line.  Sometimes it gives off that "all they want is ass" vibe, and that is just uncool... unless, in fact, thats all you both want, then infer away!! :-)

I get it, yes we are grown, and saying what is on your mind and getting it out is sometimes a good thing... but damn dont just jump off the cliff and spit it all out at once.  Slow down Speed Racer. Men and women alike love to be complimented, courted, and flirted with but I think moderation and  respect is key!!

Alrighty... I think I have stepped on plenty of toes, and will probably not get as many inboxes on FB as I used to due to this.. but hell that might be a good thing!!! lol Yes, yes this rant may be a bit random, and a bit rambled, but I am sure you get the jist of what I am saying.

Yes, yes... rambling Jen is back... hope you enjoy!!

XOXO

Jen